Hōʻikeʻia ka pilinaʻohana ma nā palapala, makemake lākou i ka hālāwai ninaninau, ma ka hoʻopaʻa inoaʻana i nā kahua he nui e pono e hōʻike i kēiaʻike. Peheaʻoe e'ōlelo ai i ka hua'ōlelo "mare" e pili ana i kahi wahine?
He aha ke kūlana o ka nohona?
Loaʻa nāʻano o ka nohoʻana ma keʻano male: male, haʻalele, mare. ʻO kaʻaoʻao kānāwai o kēia mau hua'ōlelo ua maopopo i nā mea a pau, akā,ʻo ia kahi kūlana noho kāne no ka mea hana i ke komoʻana he mea nui.
He aha ka manaʻo o ka mea hana i ka nohona kūlana?
Me he ala maikaʻi loa ka loaʻaʻana o ka hana ma ka pakuhi,ʻo ia ke mare i ka wahine i mareʻia. Akāʻaʻole, hikiʻole ke kaʻawale kahiʻohana me kahi kanaka - e noʻonoʻo ana kona haku hana e noho i nā lā a me nā pō. Akā, mai kahi wahine'ōpioʻaʻole i mareʻia e kali nei i kahi kaula paʻa: he mau hele pinepine - ka maleʻana - he kānāwai. A inā heʻoi aku ka wahine ma mua o 35 mau makahiki aʻaʻole i mareʻiaʻo ia, a lailaʻaʻole paha e hoʻopiʻi kēia i ka mea hana - aia koke ka kumu i loko o kaʻano maikaʻi o ka mea noi.
ʻO nā wāhine i mareʻia me nā keikiʻole,ʻaʻole lākou i kahi kūpono maikaʻi -ʻaʻole lākou e haʻalele koke i ke kauoha, aʻaʻole makemake nā wāhine me kahi keikiʻuʻuku e lawe i kahi hana, no ka mea, ke manaʻo nei lākou i nā maʻi maʻi pinepine no ka maʻi o kahi keiki.
ʻO ka wahine i loko o ka māhele maleʻana,ʻaʻole ia he mea momona maikaʻi no ka mea nāna e hana -ʻo ka hikiʻole i ka hoʻolālā hanaʻana i kahi pilina pili ke hōʻike i ka pilikia a me ka hana.
No laila,ʻo ka mea makemake loaʻo ia ka wahine i haʻaleleʻia a i mareʻia me kekahi keiki makua.
Pehea e hoʻololi ai i kahi noho male ma nā palapala?
No ka mea uaʻike mākou he mea nui ka hoʻopaʻa inoaʻana o nā pilina, pono e hoʻomanaʻo i ka mālamaʻana i nā hana a pau. ʻAʻole wale ka hāʻawiʻana i kahi palapala hōʻailona e hāʻawi iāʻoe i ka pono kūpono e kākau i ka'ōlelo magic "mare" i ka nīnau o ke kūlana male. Pono pono e kau i kahi hōʻailona ma ka palapala passport.
No ka hoʻololi i ka nohoʻana o ka wahine ma ka passport, ponoʻoe e noi i ka keʻena o kaʻaha keʻena ma kou wahi noho. Mai poina hoʻi inā inā hoʻololiʻoe i kāu inoa, laila e hoʻololiʻia ka passport.
ʻO ka maleʻana,ʻaʻole ia he kūlana mare!
Akā, he mau pepa palapala, akā,ʻaʻole mākou e ola ma ka pepa. Aʻoi aku ka mareʻana ma mua o ka hōʻailona ma kahi palapala holowai. Ua lohe paha mākou i ka'ōlelo:ʻo ka mareʻanaʻaʻole ia he kūlana mare, akāʻo ka medal "No ka wiwoʻole". Me kēia hikiʻole iā mākou ke kū'ē,ʻaʻole hiki ke kau i ke apo i kou manamana lima, akā e mālama i laila i ke ola. Pono nui ka naʻau a me ka ikaika o kahi wahine e kūkulu i ka pilina hilinaʻi ma kaʻohana a mālama i ke aloha no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. Akā,ʻo ka kuleana o kaʻohana hauʻoli,ʻaʻole wale nō ma nā poʻohiwi poʻohiwi o ka wahine, pono nō ke kōkua o ka hoa kāne maʻaneʻi. ʻOiai, ke kau nei nā mea a pau i ka'ōpiopio, e like me nā hiʻohiʻona,ʻike nā mea'imikalahana i nāʻanoʻohana.
- ʻO nā pilina, nā mea a mākou i kamaʻilio ai, i ka wā e māhele likeʻia ai ka kuleana o ka male ma waena o nā hoa kāne, manaʻo nā kānaka loea i ka maikaʻi. Hui ka lōʻihi o ka Union of Companions, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou e kū'ē i ka manaʻo pilikino, akā, e hoʻoholo i kahi e neʻe ai kaʻohana. ʻO ke aloha i kēlā me ka mareʻana he mālie,ʻaʻole pono kaʻoki pihaʻana i ka hoa.
- ʻO kekahiʻano o ka pilina ma keʻano he pilina pilipaʻa - manaʻo kekahi o nā wāhine i ke kuleana o kekahi a mālama i kāna mau pilikia. ʻAʻole i lawelawe mau ke kāne i keʻano o ke kahu, i kēia manawa ua ulu nui nā wāhine i keʻano o ke kia o kaʻohana.
- Aia nāʻohana e ho'āʻo nui ai nā hoa kāne e mālama i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa. Hiki iā lākou ke noho kaʻawale a hāʻawi iā lākou iho e loaʻa nā hālāwai maikaʻi "ma kaʻaoʻao".
- ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau he mau pilina kahi eʻike mau ai ka wahine i ke poʻo o kaʻohana. He mau mau haʻahaʻa ma kēia kumuhana. ʻO nā mareʻana he mea paʻakikīʻole ia, pinepine i nāʻaoʻaoʻelua a me kaʻikeʻole i ka mea e kū i ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe.
- ʻO kekahi ma lalo iki o ka pilina o ka pilina a nā kāne kāne i manaʻoʻiʻo ai he pono iā lākou kekahi i kekahi, me kaʻole pono i ko lākou ola pono'ī. Eia maanei,ʻaʻohe mea hakakā o ka hakakā,ʻo kahi kumu wale nō no ka lili.
E like me kāu eʻike ai,ʻo ka hua'ōlelo pokole e pili ana i ka nohona piliʻana i ke kūlana o ka nohona maoliʻana,ʻaʻole ia. No laila, mai manaʻo nui i nā wāhine a pau i mareʻia a mālamaʻia, a hoʻokuʻuʻia.