ʻO ka lā me kahi kāne, aʻo ka mea mua, he mea hauʻoli no nā kaikamahine, ma hope o ka pauʻana o ia mea ma luna ona e pili ana i ka piliʻana o ka pilina. No laila, peheaʻoe e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka lā mua me ke kanaka, pehea e hana ai i ka mea, hiki iāʻoe ke hana, a me ka mea eʻole e hana? No ka pehea e hōʻinoʻole ai i ka lā mua, e kamaʻilio kākou i kēia lā.
Hoʻomākaukau mua
Ma kekahi mau makahiki, mākou e nānā nui i ka kohoʻana o nā lole, aʻo ka lā mua wale nōʻaʻole ia. ʻO ka mea e komo ai no kēia hālāwai, i like keʻano o ke kāne me ka maikaʻiʻole iā ia? ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake mākou e leʻaleʻa, akā,ʻo ka wahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ka wāwae nui a me ka umauma. Ma ka lā mua, pono ke kanaka e koho i kāu mauʻaoʻao ma lalo o ka lole eʻaʻahu - e hoʻopukaʻo ia i nā pūpū, aʻaʻoleʻo ia e hōʻike nui aku. Ma keʻano maʻamau, pono ke kohoʻia nā lole e like me ka hiki ke hiki, akā, e hoʻokūpaʻa i kou hanohano. Akā,ʻaʻohe pono e hāʻule i loko o ka hopena'ē aʻe,ʻo keʻano nani loaʻaʻole e hoʻonani i kaʻaʻahu mōneka, no laila,ʻaʻole ia e lilo i ka mea nui mai kahi hoʻolālā hou. A no ka mea, pono kāu mau lole e kūlike i ka lā o ka hālāwai. Kūpono, he mea hōʻewa ke hele ma luna o kahi pīpī, uaʻaʻahuʻia i kaʻaʻahuʻaʻahu a me nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae.
No ka hana make-up,ʻo ka mea nui maʻaneʻi,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopau. He maikaʻi ke koho i kahi kiʻi pale kūponoʻole. ʻAʻole pono e hana i kahi hana pāʻani-keʻokeʻo aiʻole e penaʻana i nā kui i kahi leʻaleʻa leo. I kēia manawaʻaʻole kāu hana i mea e lanakila ai ke kanaka me kona'ōlinolino i waho (inā kāheaʻo ia iāʻoe i kahi lā, a laila ua hoʻokipaʻoe iā ia ma mua), pehea ka nui e hōʻoia ai iā ia he mea maikaʻi e hoʻolimalima manawa meʻoe, e lanakila me kāuʻano kamaʻilio.
Pehea e hana ai i kahi hui?
He aha kāu e'ōlelo ai i ka lā mua, he aha ka manaʻo e loaʻa? Aia kekahi mau kānāwai kūponoʻole a me kekahi o lākou -ʻaʻole e pono i kekahi kaikamahine ke hōʻike i kekahi mau mea i loaʻa iā ia a me nā pilikia,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike pono i kekahi i kekahi, a no laila eʻoi aku ana kouʻike i ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he meaʻoluʻolu loaʻoe e kamaʻilio me ke kanaka eʻakaʻaka iāʻoe me ka lokomaikaʻi aʻaʻoleʻo ia e ho'āʻo iāʻoe i kou mau pilikia.
He aha kāu e noi ai i ka lā mua? ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mea nui loa kāu makemake. ʻAʻole hiki i ka maʻalahi ke pāʻani maikaʻi, a i loko oʻelima mauʻumi mau minuke e like me keʻano o ke kiʻi keaka. No laila, e ho'āʻo e kamaʻilio ma nā kumuhana aʻoukou e makemake ai i ko haʻi. A e makaʻala i nā'ōhumu nui nui no kāuʻaoʻao, no ka mea, uaʻike mākou i ka mea, me ko lākou ikaika a pau, he poʻe pōʻino nā kānaka. No laila, ke ho'āʻo nei mākou e'ōlelo wiwoʻole (ʻo kahi kaikamahine i loko o ka naʻau e puka mai ana i ka waiwai a me ka makemake e lanakila), akā me ka hoʻoheneheneʻole i ka mea hihia. Aʻo ia, e hoʻopoina i nāʻaʻa - he mau manawa e hāʻawi ai ke kanaka iāʻoe ināʻoe e hoʻokaumaha nui ana, akā,ʻaʻole e hoʻonani iāʻoe i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa pinepine,ʻaʻole hoʻiʻo ia e hoʻonui i ka hauʻoli.
Mahalo pinepine nā kaikamāhine inā he mea pono ke kissē a iʻole e moe pū me ke kanaka i ka lā mua. ʻOiai,ʻo ia nō ia iāʻoe, a malia paha e mahalo loa ke kanaka iāʻoe e makemakeʻo ia e neʻe aku i kahi pilina pili loa. Akā, maikaʻi ka hanaʻole. Aʻo ka māhele maʻaneʻiʻaʻole i loko o nā kaʻula o ka pono (akā inā he ikaika lākou,ʻo ka manaʻo o ka pilina ma ka lā muaʻaʻole ia eʻike iāʻoe), akā i nāʻano o ka manaʻo kāne. ʻO nā kānaka ma keʻano, he poʻe hahai lākou a he poʻe lanakila. A inā uaʻikeʻo ia i ka lanakila piha ma ka hālāwai mua, a lailaʻaʻole hiki i ka mea'ē aʻe ke hahai. No ke aha, ma hope o ka haʻaleleʻana o nā kūlana a pau a hāʻawi piha i ka loaʻa?
ʻO ka hapa nui - he kūlohelohe. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e kope i ka hali mai kāu mea punahele punahele a mea paha mai ke kaʻina (mau puke, manga), heʻano'ēʻoe, a he nui. E hoʻomanaʻo i keʻano o ka naʻaupō o ke kanaka i kona wā e ho'āʻo ai e hele
ʻO wai ka mea uku i ka lā mua? Maanei he mea maʻalahi nā mea a pau, e like me nā rula o ke kuʻi, e uku ka mea i konoʻia. Akā ināʻo ka hoʻoholo e hele ma kahi o kahi (ʻo ka hua'ōlelo "Ke kono aku nei wau iāʻoe"ʻaʻole i kani), a laila e uku nā kānaka a pau no lākou iho.
E hoʻomanaʻo, i nā hewa i ka lā mua e loaʻa ana nā kaikamāhine a me nā keikikāne. A inā ma hope o ka hālāwai,ʻaʻohe hoʻomauʻana, mai hōʻinoʻoe iāʻoe iho, malia pahaʻaʻoleʻo kāu kanaka.