Ua loaʻa iāʻoe kekahi moeʻuhane wahaheʻe e pili ana i kou hilahila e hoʻomanaʻo? Hoʻokipa maikaʻiʻo Dr. Sigmund Freud i kāu moʻolelo a haʻi iāʻoe e pili ana i kouʻano he nui nā mea hoihoi. Eia naʻe, i ka loaʻaʻole o ia manawa kūpono, hiki i kekahi ke aʻo i ka manaʻo o nā moeʻuhane iʻikeʻia i loko o nā loiloikala a me nā mea nāna e hoʻoponopono.
He aha keʻano o nā moe nane?
Inā loaʻa iāʻoe he moeʻuhane pōʻino,ʻaʻole kēia manaʻoʻaʻoleʻoe i ke kūlana kūpono,ʻaʻoleʻoe e māʻona, a iʻoleʻoe i kekahi mau pilikia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he moeʻuhane kekahi mau kiʻi a me nā manaʻo i hele mai iāʻoe no kekahi lā. Eia naʻe, ināʻoe eʻike mau i kēlā mau moeʻuhane i kēlā me kēia manawa, hiki iā ia keʻano i kaʻikeʻole i kahi hoʻomahaʻole me kēia wahi i ke ola maoli. Ināʻikeʻoe i keʻano paʻakikīʻole o nā moeʻuhane o kēia mau mea,ʻaʻohe kumu e hopohopo ai.
Ma nā moeʻuhane,ʻike pinepine nā kānaka i nā mea e hikiʻole iā lākou ke hoʻoholo i ka hopena maoli: ka wahine me kekahi mau hoa, kekahi mau hewa, aʻoʻoe iho ma keʻano kolohe.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane o nā kaikamāhineʻaʻole i ke alakaʻi pono i kahi waiwai maoli. ʻO ka mea maʻamau,ʻo nā wāhine wale nō ka hauʻoli loa i nā mea a lākou iʻike ai a kakahiaka aʻe ua mākaukau lākou e uhae i kā lākou hoa me ke aloha. Akā,ʻo ka moeʻuhane mau o nā kāne e hoʻopau pinepineʻia me ka hakakā maoli - akā, he mea maʻamau kēia no ke kāne kāne, aʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo ai i kēia hihia.
Inā hopohopo nā nane e hopohopoʻoe -ʻikeʻoe i loko o lākou i ka hanaʻino, hoʻopiʻi, hoʻopiʻi - ponoʻoe e huli i kahi mea wehewehe i hiki i nā manawaʻelua ke maopopo pono i ke kumu o kou moeʻuhaneʻana i nā moeʻeha me kēia mea. Mai makaʻu no ka heleʻana i ke kahuna lapaʻau - malia paha he hōʻailona kēia o kahiʻano o ka'ōpiopio o ka'ōpiopio.
Pehea eʻike ai i kahi moeʻehaʻeha?
Ma ka hapanui o nā mea,ʻo ka mea wale nō i manaʻoʻia ai nā moe wahaheʻe,ʻo ia i ka lā i loaʻa ai iāʻoe ka maka o ke kiʻi iʻikeʻia e kou manaʻo noʻonoʻo e like me ka moekolohe, a iʻoleʻoe i noʻonoʻo i ka wahine.
No laila, hiki ke hāpai i kahi moe mehameha me ke kiʻekiʻe loa o ka likelika, ināʻoe e nānā i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni e pili ana i ke aloha, e hoʻomanaʻo i nā kiʻi likeʻole i uhiʻia noʻoe me ka'ākau pili. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iāʻoe ke kelepona i ka papahana kūʻai hale kūʻai pūnaewele no nā mākua a iʻole ka lingerie'ōpiopio.
Akā, inā kū'ē kou kino iā ia,ʻaʻohe mea e kōkua. Maiʻoleʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i ka hopena - ma iaʻano e loaʻa iāʻoe kahi pōmaikaʻi maikaʻi aʻe. Ua hōʻoiaʻia ma ka moeʻana o nā wāhine i nā moeʻuhane eʻoi pinepine aku ma mua o nā kāne - i ka ikaika o ke kāne me kaʻelemakule, he emi a heʻuʻuku hoʻi.