ʻO ke kaikamahine i ka 14 o kona mau makahiki,ʻaʻole ia he kamaliʻi, akā, he kaikamahine me ka hopena paʻakikī, nā kuʻuna a me nā hana. No laila,ʻaʻole e pili pono nā makana o nā mākaukau o nā keiki, akā, uaʻano hiki wawe ke hāʻawiʻana i nā mea nui a nā mākua. E noʻonoʻo i ka mea e hāʻawi i ke kaikamahine 14 mau makahiki.
He aha kāu e hāʻawi ai i kahi kaikamahine no nā makahiki he 14?
I kēia wā e hoʻomaka ana nā kaikamāhine e nānā i ko lākou hiʻohiʻona, e like me ko lākou nānāʻana i nā maka o haʻi. No laila, ka mea mua e hoʻoponopono ai a me nā mea no ka lauoho lauoho, ua ho'ālaʻia ka lauoho. Ināʻikeʻoe i nā meaʻono o kahi kaikamahine hānau hānau maikaʻi, a ua lohe pinepine paha i ka inoa o kekahi lāʻau lapaʻau,ʻo ke ala e makemake aiʻo ia e loaʻa, a laila e lawe. ʻO kāu makanaʻoiaʻiʻo nō ia i kou makemake. Inā makaʻuʻoleʻoe e koho, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hele ma nāʻaoʻaoʻelua. ʻO ka mua - e kūʻai i ka kāleka makana i loko o ka hale kūʻai o nā mea palemahu, nā mea e hana ai i ke kāhiko a me nā lole, a pēlā nō i koho ai ke kaikamahine i kekahi makana eʻono iā ia; ʻO ka lua - nā makana mai ka helu o nā mea hana hale no ka nani,ʻo ia hoʻi he mea pono no nā kaikamahine: ka lauoho lauoho, kaʻili a me ka pale lauoho, kahi'āpala no ka hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana i ka maka.
ʻO kaʻenehana, ma keʻano he pono, he makana maikaʻi no kahi kaikamahine. Inā hāʻawi kālā ke kālā, hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai iā ia i kahi kelepona hou a iʻole kamepiula paha. Nā koho koho hou aku: kahi hihia kelepona, mea pelekane mp3, mea nānā kiʻi kamepiula, pahu pīpī aiʻole pona pona, lohe pepeiao maikaʻi a iʻole ka meaʻoihana kaulana i kēia manawa. Aʻo ka makana maʻalahi loa mai kēiaʻano e like me ia inā he'ōmaʻomaʻo nani a hiʻona ia, heʻano'ēʻole a he inoa paha o kahi kamaliʻi kaulana.
ʻO kekahiʻano makana maikaʻi no kahi kaikamahine he 14 makahiki ka makana no kāna mea hoʻonani. Hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike i kahi hōʻike no kahi papa kūlana ma kahi hopena o ka hoihoi iā ia, e like me ka hanaʻana i ka hamopila a scrapbooking. E hoʻokomo pūʻia hoʻi kaʻauhau i nā papa ma ka holo lio a me ke hula. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i kaʻaʻahu nani no ka mea hana lima aiʻole i kahi hoʻonohonoho no kahi kaikamahine makemake. Inā makemakeʻo ia i nā pāʻani, a laila,ʻo nā mea hoʻolimalima hou a iʻole ke kāhikoʻana, eʻoluʻolu nō ia iā ia.
ʻO ka hopena,ʻo ka hua'ōlelo "ka makana maikaʻi loa he puke" aia nō ke kuleana e noho. Inā kohoʻoe i kahi puke e hāʻawi i kahi kaikamahine no 14 mau makahiki, a laila,ʻo nā hana kaulana a pau o nā kūlana Lūkini i loko o ka nani nani nani e lilo i mea maikaʻi. Hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i puke mai nā puke kūʻai maikaʻi loa loa e pili ana i ka poʻe'ōpio: keʻano o ka "The Lord of the Rings", "Harry Potter", "Nānā Haʻuki", "E holo ana i loko o ka Labyrinth". No ka poʻe i makemake i ka hanaʻilihune, he makana maikaʻi loa paha kahi puke e pili ana i nā hana lima a me ke kāhili, kahi hōʻiliʻiliʻai, a me nā papa kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i kaʻono o ke kaikamahine i ka moʻolelo, a laila, e hāʻawi iā ia me kahi puke e-e hiki iā ia ke hoʻouna i nā hana āna i makemake ai.
He aha kāuʻaʻole e hāʻawi?
ʻO kahi lā hānau no kahi kaikamahine 14-makahiki, he mea nui ia e hauʻoli ai. No laila, mai hāʻawi aku i kēlā mau makana i kūponoʻole i kou makemake. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e kūʻai aku i nā lole, kāmaʻa a me nā mea hana'alapili, ināʻaʻoleʻoe i maopopo i kou likeʻana me ka inoa o ka kaikamahine hānau, aʻaʻole pahaʻoe iʻike i keʻano o konaʻili, lauoho, ka nui o ka wāwae.
Hiki ke hāʻawi aku nā metala waiwai i kēia mau makahiki i kahi pili pili loa: nā mākua, nā kaikuaʻana a me nā kaikuaʻana, nā kūpuna. Eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā hoaaloha me nā meaʻoi aku o ke kālā. Ināʻole, hiki i kahi makana o nā mea aloha keʻoi aku ma mua o ke kumukūʻai o ka makanaʻohana, a hiki i kēia ke hoʻopiʻi i ka pane.
Eia kekahi, mai hāʻawi i nā makana ola (nā manu, nā'īlio, nā'īlio, nā iʻa, a me nā like). 'Apono waleʻia kēlā makana ināʻikeʻoe he makemake maoli kahi kaikamahine i kahi puaʻa a kūkākūkā i ka loaʻa o kēlā makana me nā mākua o ke kaikamahine, a uaʻae lākou.