He mau hōʻailona kēia no ka makua. Ma kahi o kaʻoi aku o ka paʻakikī, ināʻaʻole i pau kēia manawa aʻo ka keiki ke hāʻawi mau nei i nā mea e weliweli ai i keʻano o nā kūlana maʻamauʻole. Hoʻoholo kekahi i ka hoʻopiʻi mau no ka huhū mai nā pahu kuhū, aʻo kekahi poʻe eʻike ana i kaʻaoʻao'ē aʻe o kahi kaʻawale a me ka kaʻawaleʻana mai ka pūʻulu. He aha nā mea e pono ai nā mākua eʻike a pehea e kōkua ai i ke keiki e hoʻololi i ka pilikanaka?
Mai kahi lōʻihi a hiki i ka wela
Ma keʻano he kūlana, hauʻoli mākou i ka wā e launa ana ke keiki me nā hoa aʻaʻole e kū. Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, ua hoʻohālikelike kēia i ka hana o ka hānaiʻana a hiki i ke kohoʻana i kahi kula hoʻonaʻauao. ʻO ka mea nui, i kēia mau lā, he nui aʻoi aku nā kūlana kahi e kū ai ke keiki ma mua o nā mākua a me ka lehulehu.
He aha nā hewa i hiki i nā meaʻike keʻike?
- Nui ka hilahila . Loaʻa nā keiki a pau i ka manawa mua a maʻalahi hiki keʻike i kahi'ōlelo maʻamau me ko lākou mau hoa. ʻO ka pilikia o ka hilahila ke loaʻa pinepineʻia ma ke kaʻina hana o nā mākua. Eia kekahi laʻana, maʻi pinepine ka'ūpuni a hōʻole nā mākua i ka hōʻoleʻana mai ka papa hana papahele aʻaʻole paha eʻae iā ia e hele ma nā wahi maʻamau o nā pā. E hoʻolohe: i kekahi manawa e hoʻohilahila mākou i ka hilahila me ka pono no ka pilikino. Inā hiki i kāu keiki ke'ōlelo i kahi kanaka makua a noi mai i kekahi mea, akā,ʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e komo i nā pāʻani hui (ma kahi o ka huki a hōʻiliʻili paha i nā puʻupuʻu), a laila,ʻaʻohe kumu e hopohopo ai.
- ʻO kekahi koho he kaua mau. Ma kahi o ke keiki e kauaʻole. ʻO ka hakakā hope loa e hiki ke hana i keʻano hakakā a iʻole kahi leo nui. ʻO ka hopena, ua maʻalahi nā kamaliʻi no kaʻikeʻoleʻana iā ia ma mua o ka hele pinepineʻana i kahi kūlana maikaʻiʻole. Eia nā aʻa o ka pilikia i loko o kaʻohana. Ke kali nei nā pēpē e hoʻokaʻawale a hoʻonohonoho pono i nā mea hauʻoli wale nō no ke kumu e hoʻohanaʻia ai lākou e hana ai i ka home. Mālama nā mākua i ka pēpē a iʻole e koi i nā koi kiʻekiʻe. Hoʻopiʻi ka'ōwili i ka meaʻole, i hōʻiliʻiliʻia ma ka home.
- ʻO ka hauʻoli no kekahi kumu . ʻO ka'ōpio i kekahi manawa e hoʻoemi iki i nā pilikia ma mua o ke keiki pupule. ʻO ka kumu mua o kēiaʻano hana ke nānāʻana i nā palena o ka mea eʻaeʻia. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, uaʻike pinepineʻia kēia koho. Hoʻomaopopo ka'ōhumu i ka hana i hiki iā ia ke hana, a no ka mea e hoʻopaʻiʻiaʻo ia. ʻO ka lua o ka manawa,ʻo ia ka hoʻopaʻi no ka hōʻino. Ua kiola kekahi i kāu keiki me ke kuhiʻole, a ua laweʻo ia i kaʻae me ka ikaika loa. E nānā i kahi eʻike ai ke keiki i keʻano o ka hana. ʻO ka pōʻino loa ke kūʻana o ka huhū a he kōkua ka mea kōkua.
- ʻAʻole kahi contact . Aia kekahi mahele o nā keiki i paʻakikī loa e hoʻokumu i ka pilina me ke ao waho. ʻO nā mākua mai kinohi mai,ʻike lākou i nā hana maʻamauʻole: i ka wā'ōpiopioʻole nā keiki e hāpai i kā lākou mau peni aʻaʻole lākou e leʻaleʻa i kaʻikeʻana o ko lākou makuahine; Pono nā keiki o Autistic i kahi kūikawā kūikawā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻokuʻu i nā malihini i ko lākou ao a pinepine i ka manaʻo e hoʻi i hope. Akā,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke keiki i loko o ka honua i kēia manawa, aʻoi aku kona maikaʻi ma mua o ke keiki maʻamau. ʻO kāu hana me ke kōkua o kahi kanaka kālaiʻike eʻike i kahi ala
a lanakila i ka hilinaʻi o nā pahuhuna, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke lawe iā ia e kamaʻilio me nā hoa. - ʻO ka mea maʻalahiʻole keʻoliʻoli i nā mea nona nā mea. ʻO nā keiki, i maʻalahi ka poʻe'ē aʻe i kaʻike kiʻekiʻe, he nui nā pilikia me ke kamaʻilioʻana,ʻoiai lākou e hoʻopalai waleʻia e ko lākou mau hoa. Inā noi mau kāu keiki i nā nīnau mai kekahi wahi a ua hāʻawiʻiaʻo ia i kēia aʻoʻana, ponoʻoe e nānā koke no nā'āpana ma ka pono. Ma laila e hiki ai i ka pahu kuhumu keʻike i kahi kaʻina o ka kamaʻilioʻana kahi eʻoluʻolu aiʻo ia.