Nā Pāpale Pelekane

ʻO kahi keʻena o nā keikiʻaʻole kahi kahi e hiamoe ana a hana ai paha kāu pēpē. ʻO ia kona māhele'āina, kahi e ulu a ulu aiʻo ia. ʻO ka palekana a me ka hōʻoluʻolu o ke keiki, e like me kona uluʻana, ma muli o ka hopena. ʻO ke kumu ia e kohoʻia ai ke poʻo o ka lumi o nā keiki e like me nā makahiki a me nā makemake o ka pēpē.

Hoʻonohoʻia nā mea hana keiki

Hiki i ka papa o ke poʻo ke komo i nāʻano mea likeʻole, e like me nā makemake o ka mea kūʻai, ka makahiki o ke keiki a me ka nui o ka lumi pono'ī.

1. Inā mākou e kamaʻilio ana no nā mea hale no kahi keiki hou, a laila,ʻo ka papa hana e loaʻa mau ana i kahi moena a me ka papaʻaina. I kekahi manawa hāʻawi nui nā mākua i kahi moena pale hou, akā paʻakikīʻole e hōʻole i ka hoʻololi i ka papa.
2. Me ka uluʻana o ka pēpē e loaʻa mai ka pono no ka mea nui o nā mea makua. ʻO nā poʻo pepeiao o nā keiki no nā keiki mai kēlā makahiki a kēia makahiki, he kanaka kiʻekiʻe no ka hānaiʻana, nā mea liʻiliʻi a me nā lima kūpono o nā mea huki, a me nā kīʻaha no nā mea hāmeʻe a me kahi hānai. ʻO ka mea maʻamau,ʻo nā mea hana e ho'āʻo e hana i nā lole a me nāʻaʻahu i piha i ka lole, no ka mea he nui aku nā mea a ke keiki, aʻoi aku ka maʻalahi i nā mākua e kūʻai i hoʻokahi manawa no nā makahiki he nui, iʻole e hana hou i ke kūʻai i loko o hoʻokahi makahiki aʻelua paha.
3. Aia kekahi manaʻo o "'ōpani pāʻani keiki." I kēia manawa, kohoʻia kēia koho e nā makua aʻoi aʻe. He hui like kēia o ka hoʻomohalaʻana i nā mea a me kahi wahi e moe ai no nā keiki. Hiki ke waiho i ka moena ma ka papaheleʻelua, a mai lalo iho o ka papaʻaina a iʻole ka pahu e hoʻokomoʻia. ʻO nā alapiʻi i loko o keʻano o nā pahu, kahi pahu kiʻi ma ke kua a me nāʻano pahu a me nāʻoki no ka mālamaʻana i nā mea pāʻani. ʻO nā mea hana iʻoi pinepineʻia e kauoha, ua hanaʻia ma keʻano o nā kīleʻa a me nā moku, nā mīkini a iʻoluʻolu naniʻia me nā mea hoʻonani nani.
4. ʻO nā lako no kahi keikikāne a me kekahi'ōpio heʻanoʻokoʻa loa. Ma kēia wahi,ʻaʻole nui ka manaʻo nui ma ka hoʻolālā kumu a me ka palekana e like me ka hoʻohana ponoʻana i kahi o kahi keiki a me ka hōʻoluʻolu. I ka hoʻopaʻaʻana i ka poʻo, pono pono e noʻonoʻo i ka wahi hana, ka moe, nā lumi a me nā papa no kaʻoihana pilikino.

Nā poʻo poʻohiwi me kahi moe

ʻO kēia ke koho nui loa loa a hiki i ka hoʻolālāʻana keʻano likeʻole. Inā he nīnau no nā papa keiki no nā keikikāne, a laila hoʻohanaʻia ka moʻolelo maʻamau maʻaneʻi: nā kaʻa, nā lāʻau, ka mea moana a me ka hoʻolālā hoʻolālā wale nō. ʻO ka'ōlula palani he mauʻulaʻula, he uliuli , he keʻokeʻo a he poʻo hina. ʻO nā keiki āpau a pau o nā keiki no nā keikikāne ke hanaʻia nei me nā laina maʻalahi.

ʻO nā'ōpiopio o nā keiki no nā kaikamāhine e maʻa mau ana, me ka nui o nā mea hoʻonani a me nā hana. ʻO ka'ōniʻoniʻo māmaʻomaʻo, he melemele me kaʻalani, he'ōmaʻomaʻo me ka poni. ʻO ka hana maʻamau o kahi keiki no nā kaikamāhine e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻonani me nā mea ulaʻula ulaula, e hoʻonui i nā kala.