ʻO ka kohoʻana o nā kāmaʻa kula no kahi kaikamahine e lilo i hōʻoia no nā mākua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mau mea hoʻoluʻolu, pono, maʻalahi, aʻoi aku ka mea kāmaʻa, pono lākou e like me ke kula. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e hoʻomanaʻo iāʻoe iho i ka makahiki kula: makemake mau i ka loaʻaʻana o nā mea nani, nā lole e hiki ai iāʻoe ke manaʻo e like me ke kamāliʻiwahine. No laila, mai poina e hoʻolohe i ka manaʻo o ke kaikamahine pono'ī, ke heleʻoe e koho i nā kāmaʻa kula. Akā, e nānā pono kākou i nā kāmaʻa e pono ai no ke kula, i like nā mākua a me nā keiki iā lākou, a kūpono i nā koi a pau. ʻAʻole i maʻalahi ka nīnau, akā he maʻalahi ke hoʻomaopopo.
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Nā kāmaʻa kula no nā kaikamāhine'ōpio
Ke kŘkohu. Ma keʻano laulima,ʻo ka mea nui loa,ʻo ia ka hoʻoholo i keʻano o nā kāmaʻa āu i kūʻai ai no kāu keiki. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, mai keʻano hoʻolālā pono'ī, aia kekahi mau koho koho hou e kāpaeʻia ana.
Inā kohoʻoe i nā kāmaʻa kula o ke keiki no kahi kaikamahine, pono e noʻonoʻo i nā keiki (nā haumāna o ke kula haʻahaʻa,ʻo ia hoʻi)ʻo nā kāmaʻa e pili i nāʻano o ka lolo. ʻO ia, he mea makemake ia e mālama i ka wāwae o kāna keiki ma ka'ākau aʻaʻole hoʻi iʻae i kēlā "kūpalē" kaulana i kēia manawa. ʻO nā kāmaʻa o nā keiki i ke kula he mau hiʻohiʻona maʻamau: nā kāmaʻa laulā maikaʻi me ka ihu a me ke kaula. Hanaʻia kēia mau kāmaʻa i loko o ka papa hana i kāohiʻia, kahi i kūpono i kaʻaʻahu o ke kula, akā, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi loa aku. He meaʻoluʻolu loa kēia kāmaʻa e komo ai a he mea kūpono ia no ke keiki e pili ana i nā kolohe.
No nā kaikamāhine-nā haumāna o ke kula waena a me ke kula kiʻekiʻe,ʻaʻole kūpono hou nā kāmaʻa kula o ia mau keiki, no ka mea, makemake lākou i kahi meaʻoi aku o keʻano a me keʻanoʻokoʻa. ʻO ka koho maikaʻi i kēia hihia, he kāmaʻa kālepa . Haliʻolu lākou, heʻoluʻolu lākou e hele aʻaʻole e luhi ka wāwae,ʻoiai inā pauʻoe i nā lā a pau (kahi e hana pinepine ai me nā haumāna). Eia kekahi,ʻo nā lole pale nani e mau ana i nā manawa a me kaʻoluʻolu me nāʻano likeʻole. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāpai hou i nā kāmaʻa kula nui, nā kāmaʻa kāmaʻa, kahi kūpono i ka puna a me ke kauwela ma mua, a me kahiʻoi aku paʻa. Eia kekahi, komo mai nā kāmaʻa kālepa i nāʻano lelo a me nā manaʻo likeʻole, a hāʻawi iā lākou i nā mea hou i nā maka o nā kaikamāhine. ʻOiai, ua makemake kekahi wahine e komo i nā kāmaʻa nani i ke kula.
Inā ua makaukauʻoe eʻae i kāu kaikamahine e komo i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae, hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i nā kāmaʻa no kahi kula me kahi kuʻekuʻe wāwae aiʻole ma kahi'āpana, i manaʻoʻia he kūpono. ʻO ka hoʻomakaʻana o ke aʻoʻana i ke kaikamahine e hele ma kona wāwae wāwae, mai ka walu a hiki i ka papaʻeiwa, no ka mea, he mea maʻa mau kēia akamai i kona ola. Aʻo nā kāmaʻa kāleʻa maikaʻi a me nā kuʻekuʻe, e kōkua maoli nō ia i kona mau manaʻo.
Nā hōkū a me nā mea hoʻonani. E like me kāu eʻike ai, nui nā mākua e koho i nā kāmaʻa no nā keiki, e like me nā koho likeʻole e like me keʻano maʻamau:ʻeleʻele a iʻole keʻokeʻo a me kaʻole o ka momona. Akā, no ka piliʻole o kēia mau lula i nā kāmaʻa,ʻaʻole hiki ke kapaʻia kēia koho pololei, no ka mea, he pono e nānā aku i keʻano o ka manaʻo o ke kaikamahine. E waiho i kāna kāmaʻa. No laila, koho i ko lākouʻili a me kānoho me kāu keiki, i mea eʻono ai. Eia kekahi laʻana, heʻulaʻula maikaʻi ka uilaʻulaʻula ma ka peʻa keʻokeʻo. A ināʻoe eʻimi mau i nā kāmaʻaʻeleʻele, a laila e hoʻonaniʻia lākou me kekahiʻano kūpona a me keʻano papaʻole.
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