ʻO nā hōʻailona kūpono loa no ke aloha, ua kapaʻiaʻo ia he 'ʻalaʻala. Eia kekahi laʻana, ke hana neiʻoe i loko o ka hale a ma loko o ka hale, no ka kumu kumuʻole, nā punahe wai, nā huaʻakoʻa a me nā meaʻai kūpono paha,ʻaʻole loa i kūpono i kēia mau mea i kēia wahi a me kahi kūlana, a no laila, ke hōʻike nei lākou i kekahi mea.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ua hiki anei kēia iāʻoe? He maʻalahi ke haʻi e pili koke ana, ma ke aloha, ua hoʻololiʻia kekahi mau hoʻololi. ʻO ia mau hōʻailona heʻano nui,ʻo nā hōʻailona wale no ka hukiʻana i ke aloha he mea kūponoʻole, aʻaʻole paha e pili pono i kahi kūlana (e like me ia ma mua: nā leka i nā mea i alohaʻia i kākauʻia me kahi peni'ōnika hou, a pēlā aku).
E ho'āʻo mākou eʻimi i nā hōʻailona a me nā hoʻomana kiʻi e pili ana i ke aloha, hoʻomaopopo i kā lākou, e hoʻoholo i ko lākou hoʻohanaʻana i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā aʻike i nā hōʻailona kūpono a me nā manawa hou no ke aloha, no mākou nā kaikamāhine.
Nā hōʻailona o ke aloha e hoʻokokoke mai nei
- Makemakeʻoe e hoʻololi i kekahi mea ma kou helehelena: eʻoki i kou lauoho, eʻoki i kou lauoho, e hoʻololi i kou kapa lole, eʻalo i ka kaumaha (hele i ke keʻena), a pēlā aku. ʻO ka weheweheʻana no kēia mea,ʻo ko mākou naʻau kuhiʻole he hōʻailona e pono ai e hoʻololi i ke ola o kekahi, e like me ke aloha mua.
- Inā ua hoʻomaka kekahi e hana hou i nā mea e pono aiʻoe e pena aʻokiʻoki paha, aiʻole e ulu paha i ka lauoho - keʻikeʻoe, he mea nui kēia e hālāwai me kou aloha (a iʻole ma kahiʻoi aku o ka hoʻokipa maikaʻi).
- ʻO kahi hōʻailona kahiko o ka hōʻailona "Nā hōʻailona, ke nānā aku i ke aloha" e'ōlelo ana i ka hoʻoholo kokeʻana o kou mau hoaaloha a me kou hoahānau paha ua hāpaiʻoe. No kaʻoiaʻiʻo o kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona o nā wāhine hāpai e lilo i mea kūlohelohe iāʻoe (ka wahine, keʻano o ke kino , ke aloha, ke kāohiʻana, ke alakaʻiʻana iāʻoe iho). ʻO kēiaʻano, ma kekahiʻano, e hōʻike ana i ka wahine e "hoʻouluulu" i ke aloha a ke manaʻo neiʻo ia i kāna mea koho. Ua piha kēia kaikamahine i ke aloha a ua likeʻo ia me he makuahine.
- He hōʻailona o nā mea nalowale. ʻO ia nō ia mau mea wānana i nalowale i ka home a ma kahiʻano i manaʻoʻoleʻia. Aiaʻo ia i kēia manawa, akā,ʻaneʻane e hāʻule ana ka honua. Inā ua pau ka mīkini a loaʻa iāʻoe ma hope o ka manawa,ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki koke iāʻoe ke pili aloha hou. Inā loaʻa ka pepeiao, a laila e hoʻopauʻia ka pilina o kēia manawa i ka male. Ke hana nei ka hōʻailona wale nō ināʻoe kēia mau mea hoʻonani.
- Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona pololei e like me ke kukui o ke aloha e kōkua iāʻoe e hoʻomākaukau no kaʻoiaʻiʻo e hele nei kou aloha ma kāuʻaoʻao iāʻoe. E hoʻohālike mākou i kahi kūlana, e hana anaʻoe (e aʻo) a hāʻule koke i kou kui. Eia hou, i loko o ke alahele me kēia kui e haehae anaʻoe i ka pilapī hou. A ma ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe e hinaʻoe i nā kāmaʻa a wāwahi i ka kuʻekuʻe wāwae. ʻO kēia māhele o nā pilikiaʻaʻole ia heʻano hōʻoluʻolu a me ke kūlanaʻole, akā e hōʻike ana i kahi aloha nui a me ke aloha e hana hoʻokahi wale nō i hoʻokahi manawa.
- Ma ke ola,ʻaʻohe meaʻeha, no laila,ʻo nā mea a pau āu iʻike ai aiʻole he mau hōʻailona. Keʻikeʻia nei ke aloha e like me ke konoʻana i ka mareʻana, ua loaʻa kahi pale lio a pale paha. ʻIkeʻoe i kahi mea'ē aʻe i nalowale - hiki iāʻoe ke hauʻoli, akāʻaʻoleʻoe e lawe iāʻoe iho.
- Nīnau pinepine nā kaikamāhine iā lākou iho i ka nīnau: "He aha nā hōʻailona o ke aloha e pili ana i ka hui kaiaulu?" No laila, ke hāʻawi nei mākou iʻelua mau laʻana. ʻO ke kumu nui e noho ai i ke aloha, he mau moeʻuhane a,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ko lākouʻano hōʻailona. Eia kekahi lā, ka mahina piha - ke aloha a me ke kālā, he makana i keʻano o nā pua keʻokeʻo -
nā pilina e alakaʻi ai i ka mare, nā puaʻulaʻula - i ke aloha aloha, nā makemake, nā hana aloha, ka meme mare - i ka hilinaʻi maikaʻi ma luna o nā pilina.
ʻO nā hōʻailona o ke aloha wikiwiki ua maʻalahi a ināʻoe e noʻonoʻo, eʻikeʻoe i kā lākou hōʻike. A hele mai ke aloha iāʻoe, mai poinaʻoe:ʻaʻole i lawa ka makemake e loaʻa. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou aloha, e kamaʻilio me kāu mea i aloha ai, e like me ka manawa hope loa, e honi a mālama iā ia, e hāʻawi i kāu mau makana aloha ,ʻaʻoleʻike wale i kaʻaeʻana i ka aloha, akā, hāʻawi pū. ʻO ke aloha ka hana pāʻani o nā meaʻelua.