ʻO ke kaikuahine o ka wahine mare, he mea pili loa i ka mea hewa o kaʻahaʻaina, aia ia i lalo o ka nānāʻana o nā mea malihini, no laila, he nani kona kapa, a he like loa ke kiʻi. ʻAʻole e like me nā kaikamāhine a me nā mākua,ʻaʻole pono e kohoʻia ka lole o ke kaikuahine ma lalo o kaʻaʻahu o ka nani nui o kaʻahaʻaina, akā i ka manawa hoʻokahiʻaʻole pono e uhiʻia.
He aha ka mea e pono iaʻu ke komo no ka mareʻana o kuʻu kaikuahine?
No ke kohoʻana i kahiʻaʻahu, pono pahaʻoe e noʻonoʻo i keʻano e pono ai ke kāhiko no ka mareʻana o kona kaikuaʻana? No ka kiʻi laconic, kiʻi paleʻia, he kūpale pale lole o nā lole pastel kahi i kūpono, a me kahi'āpana liʻiliʻi, he kānana peleka kūikawā paha a me kekahi lei momona paha e lilo ia i mea hoʻonani.
Makemakeʻoe e koho i kahi kiʻiʻokoʻa hou aʻe? A laila, e hoʻolohe i ka lole maxi, akā,ʻaʻole pono e komo i kahi kapa lush a iʻole nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe mai kaʻaʻahu mare. Inā koho ka mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa o kaʻahaʻaina i kahiʻaʻahu naniʻole, a lailaʻaʻole pono i kaʻaʻahu no ke kaikuahine wahine wahine e'ōlelo hou aku i kona mau hiʻohiʻona mua: ka laulā, keʻano, a me ke kāhiko.
No ka nani, mahalo, akā,ʻaʻole makemake i kiʻi no ka kaikuahine o ka wahine mare, heʻaʻahuʻaʻohe lima a me nā kāʻei me kahi kūmoho kūpono a me ka lole lili kūpono. Hiki ke kohoʻia ka lōʻihi o ke kolamu e like me kā lākou makemake a, a me nāʻano. Inā he kaikamahine nuiʻoe me nā wāwaeʻoi, a lailaʻo kāu koho he lōʻihi kukū, ināʻaʻole kiʻekiʻe, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke koho i ka waena o ka'ūhā.
Mai poina e hiki i kaʻaʻahu no ka mareʻana i ke kaikuahine ke loaʻa i kahi nani maikaʻi. Inā mālamaʻia ka hana ma ke kauwela, aʻoi aku kaʻoi aku i loko o ka ea hou, a laila he mau koho maikaʻi nā hōkū a me nā kauwela:
- peas;
- nā pua nui;
- nā kiʻi a pēlā aku.
ʻO nā lā a me ka hoʻoilo o kaʻaʻahu, hiki i nā lālaniʻelua aʻekolu paha ka lole -ʻaʻole wale keʻano hoʻohālike, akā,ʻo ia ka hua. Eia hou, hiki i ka huiʻana o nā lawaiʻa ke hoʻoponopono i ke kiʻi, e hūnā i kekahi o nā hemahema a, ma keʻano likeʻole, e nānā i ka pono.
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