ʻO ka manawa pinepine he hana pono a pono, mai ka manaʻo o ka wahine,ʻaʻohe makana i hoʻoikaika i kāna kāne. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka mālie o ka papa inoa o nā mea pono a me nā mea pono e pau ana, aʻaʻole makemake wau e hana hou iaʻu iho ma ka New Year a iʻole koʻu lā hānau . No laila ua pilikia kā mākou mau wāhine i ka pō o ka lanakila e hele mai nei eʻimi i kekahi mea'ē aʻe. Ma kēiaʻatikala, e haʻi aku mākou iāʻoe i kahi makana i hāʻawi mua aku i kāna kāne, i mea eʻoluʻolu ai iā ia a loaʻa iā ia, i ka hopena, i ka mea i manaʻoʻia ma mua.
E koho i kahi makana kumu no kāna kāne ma ka makahiki
Pono mākou e hoʻomaha i kā mākou mau wāhine - ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole kāne ke kāne e like me nā wāhine, a keʻoluʻoluʻole nei lākou e nānā i nā mea i hūnāʻia ma ka mea hōʻike. No laila, e maʻalahi ka leʻaleʻa iā lākou ma mua o ka hoʻohālike, he hoaaloha punahele. I kēia manawa ua hopohopo kāna wahine a ua hoʻolimalima i ka wā nui eʻimi ana i kahi mea nui e hōʻoluʻolu i ka wahine.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopiliʻia i kekahi mea hoʻokahi, e hana i kāu makana i ka manawa mai nā mea likeʻole - he seti o nā pā kau, nā aniani, kahi hoʻonohonoho halepaku, mea hoʻomanaʻo hou. ʻO kahi pahu nui me kahi "hodgepodge" e hoʻonani ai i ka mea nāna. Akā,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā mea aloha i kēia mea, no ka mea hiki iā lākou ke lole a kaulaʻi paha i kahi hululu mahana, ka'aʻawe aiʻole nā kulu e hoʻomaha ai i kāu mea i aloha ai i ke anu anu.
ʻO ka makana i hāʻawiʻia i kāna kāne,ʻaʻole ia he mea hikiʻole ke noʻonoʻo a he meaʻole i ka hale. Malia paha makemake kāu wahine i kekahi mea aiʻole mau moeʻuhane no nā makahiki he nui e kūʻai aku i kahi puke i loaʻaʻole, he iʻa, a he waimana paha, akā, ke hoʻopau pinepine nei kona waiwai i ka mea mai ke kaʻa. Mai hoʻokuʻu i ke kālā no ka loaʻaʻana mai, akā,ʻoʻoe iho
Mai poina e hiki ke hanaʻia ka hopena i makemakeʻia ma muli wale nō o kēia manawa, akā, me keʻano e hāʻawi i kāu makana i kāu kāne. Hiki iāʻoe ke kauoha i kāu pahu me ka mea i hōʻikeʻia ma ka hana a kaʻelele. E kahaha nā hoahana o kāu mea i aloha ai no ka mālamaʻana i kāu mea aloha. ʻO kekahi kohoʻana,ʻo ia ka hanaʻana i kahi alahele mai nā puʻu i kālaiʻia i ke kakahiaka nui i kahi papaʻaina aiʻole kahi wahi e hoʻokomoʻia ai me kahi kānalua. Inā hāʻawi kālā, e hoʻonohonoho i kahi hōʻike maoli, e kauoha i nā tiketi no kekahi hanana nui, i ka hopena e hāʻawiʻoe i kāu makana i kāna kāne i ka lā makahiki.